Am I wrong?

Question

My boyfriend of 7 months tells his friends about every argument we have. They have yet to meet me and do not know anything about me outside of me and him arguing. Am I wrong for being upset? I feel like they shouldn’t know about personal disagreements that are easily resolved.

Answer

Whilst in a relationship it is ALWAYS wrong to disclose the contents of an argument to a third party. 
Only exceptions would be;
1.)  with permissions; such as mutually agreed upon therapy or if the couple brought a third party in to help decide who is correct in a particular instance. 
2.) If there is abuse occurring and the person needs to disclose for saftey. 
If neither parameters are met then he is WRONG. He should be hashing it out with you and you alone.

Answer

Sometimes people need to vent to others to get a new perspective. Especially if you guys are fighting so frequently so early in the relationship, maybe his friends (who know him well) can shed light on a situation or be there to just listen. It’s hard to keep pain and problems bottled up. Are you worried it makes you look bad? I mean I think the arguments themselves are way more problematic

Answer

My boyfriend does the same with his best friend, I don't like it but I do the same with my closest friends so I can't really say something about it

Am I wrong?

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