Dating advice

So i feel like a total hypocrite because i was asked out by a coworker a month or two ago but politely declined…fast forward to last week one of my bosses and i go out and actually decide that we want to date…our companies owner cought us kissing and proceeds to tell almost everyone at work about it. expecially after the fact that we’re owning up to our actions of accidentally leaving a pork belly that originally wasn’t our responsibility…he was told by our owner that he’s lost his trust and that we have to make the decision of breaking up or showing no love to one another while we’re working…im honestly more upset about our owner telling everyone even though we wanted to tell people when we were ready to