Yesterday my bf called me a stupid dumb b*tch after I called him a jerk. I know I was wrong for calling him a jerk but he was being extremely rude for no reason. We haven’t spoken since yesterday morning. This has happened before he has called me (c*nt, spoiled stuck up b*tch, etc.) he also told me he was only 80% ready to marry me but has had the engagement ring for 2 years. We have broken up 3 times and have been dating for 3 years in November. We have a 14 month old son.

We were planning on moving back to my home state to build a house and be closer to my family but I don’t think that will happen if we go separate ways which hurts.

During our fights, I sit here and think about how to get out of the situation. I think about where I should move, how to move and how we would coparent. He just sits there waiting for me to talk to him so that I’ll forgive him and things will go back to normal.

I just don’t know what to do. Has anyone been in a similar situation?