What should she do ?

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My childhood friend came to visit me today. She sat down and shared her problem that she's been having with her husband since she got married (2018). I didnt know what to say to her so i need your help ladies💞

Her husband (30) doesnt give her(24) oral, doesnt like foreplay, dislikes dirtytalk, is very stiff about sex (doesnt try new positions).

She even suggested roleplay and he declined and said thats crazy.

She even suggested showering together and he said its not his favorite and then she asks him what he wants he says nothing. She tried talking to him MANY times. But he either says he is doing so (doing as she asked) or just ignores her.

I asked her if she talked in a way that made him feel like a loser or not doing a good job but she said that she always approcahed him carefully and nicely she even made him relax and prepare nice nights. He even hates it when she wears sexy undergarments under her pjs. He says "i know you usually dont go to sleep with those undergarments you usually wear something comfy, and i knOOw why you wore those" and just keeps on making her feel like she is a sex maniac. She is not but she just wants to be intimate and enjoy her sex life. He doesnt even touch her butt when she is on top and hates it when she tries to talk dirty. He doesnt touch her boobs or play with them.

Whats MORE CRAZY is that he just gives small kisses like not deep and says be careful while kissing so our saliva wont enter each other's mouth.🤯🤯🤯🤯

She told him women are not like men and i need foreplay and oral inorder to climax but he says okay and then makes a foreplay that lasts 30 sec and just enters her and finishes off quickly. The sex session doesnt last long either. And after sex when she says she didnt feel anything he says"ok i will try to hold it longer for you next time" and makes a dirty smile.

So should she just start ignoring him and make him beg for sex.

Or should she keep trying.

???? I dont know what to say to her And i feel terrible for her. She almost cried.

Please help me give her advice. 😓 thank you ladies 🌸

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