Answers please🤨

So I’m talking to this guy.. WE ARE NOT DATING RN bc he has a kid, I’m not very comfortable dating guys with kids only bc the experiences I’ve always had was they’d keep messing with the mother… So him and his bm are TOO OPEN too each other about stuff that has nun to do with the kid.. (strike #1).. His kid told me yesterday that he has another kid otw with some other woman, and he still hasn’t told me about that but he told the mother of his kid and she told his kid who told me😵‍💫.. (strike #2&3) Although dude tells me he wants me this is the image I have in my head constantly 🥴 atp I’m ready to throw in the towel and let him do him bc I don’t believe him anyways I just feel like another girl he done manipulated mentally 🥱 (strike #4) and on top of that Me and his dad believe he’s still messing with the mother of his kid..(struck out🤷🏾‍♀️)