Is it actually true about sex in your 30s? LONG POST

Girls (this ones for the girls in their 30s or over - I need answers)

So yeah

I'm just back having a sex life again

Didn't for almost 2 years (have the breakdown of a relationship and then the Corona to thank for that)

So

There's been 2 guys

Guy 1 is a friend and it was a 1 time thing and because it was soooo long since I'd even seen a dick, yes, the sex was pretty damn good

Guy 2

Guy 2 is the sweetest but also most fkd up dude I know 💕

We have both had a thing for each other on and off for years now and what I *think* might be happening is we're taking each day as it comes & figuring out very slowly what exactly the feelings are - we did talk about this there are feelings - and seeing how it goes (if anyone feels judgey please remember it's 2021 & feel free to keep your opinions to yourself cuz I really don't care)

My question is

Im 32 now

For some reason when I'm with Guy 2 (its finished with guy 1 - he's *only* been mentioned for context, ill explain later)

When I'm with guy 2

And he gets close to me, its like all sense and reason and logic goes out the window, my brain shuts down, my ears switch off - can't make out a single word he says but his voice sounds sexy as fuck even though I dunno what he's saying

And it's the sex

The sex be having my fucking brain dissolve in my head 🤣

Like

Im literally having the best sex of my life all of a sudden and honestly I'm kinda shook?

So enough bragging 🤣 (sorry my question follows)

The reason guy 1 was even mentioned was because this did not happen with him. He was the first one in a year and 9 months and while yes it was good, it wasn't "i need to go do a few decades of the rosary" good... Yano?

So

Did anyone else

Once they started getting they freak on in their 30s

Feel like they were

- drunk (I wasn't)

- or on all the drugs (wasn't on anything either)

- or like they were literally *flying*

It can't be to do with how long it was as guy 1 *couldn't* have done that... Like.... He just couldn't....

What the fuck is happening to me lol

Is this because I'm 32 now? Is this what its like in your 30s? Is that where the saying comes from?? Im very confused