How to deal with this

Ever since my fiance and I got a new place. He has been so bossy and letting me know what he wants and doesn't want. He does help me more now with cleaning but to me it's getting too much. I don't do this or I should do this to get better results. I don't want to do everything his way. And I love how he likes to complain about how I clean (even though the job gets done with no half a** work) and doesn't help me. I started school again and he told me he doesn't like the laptop and my notepad where I sit and study on the table. He never even sits there and it makes it easier for me. Plus I was just working on something and had to do other things and he said I told you not to put this here ( like if in his child) and I said I didn't know I wasn't allowed to do things in my own home. I've been mindful of his feelings and his opinions but I'm tired of it and I don't do it on purpose. So then he gets mad and say I never do anything he asks or tells me to do and I try and talk and he turns the TV volume loud (but he can say what he has to say) and shushes me says he's watching his movie and I tell him I don't like to be to be shushed and he says in a loud voice that I should be quiet then. I'm not sure what his issue is. I don't think he's a neat freak because then he'd clean more. I just don't know what to do or how to respond