Husband/my family

Sorry this is long...lol 

I am now due with our first baby in 3 weeks (first grandchild on both sides) and my family has been almost non-existent in the whole pregnancy!..:( my dad did have cancer and was going through chemo over the summer, so I understood they never came to visit, but I figured once he was done and in the clear (beginning of September) they would want to come visit or something!?..but nope!..they haven't even bought anything off our registry, only myself and my husband and his family has bought anything off it! And not to mention my husband and mom kind of had a falling out (because of something my mom said to him) and she's never made it right..so basically my husband at this point doesn't even want them around when our baby is born! But I'm so torn on the whole situation! Because I love my husband more than anything, and respect his decision on this, but yet it's my family, even though they've not been the greatest lately!..ugh!!! Any insights?!!😕