Holy moly when does the rule book come in for toddler tantrums and just plain toddler life? I’m so lost. How do you know you’re disciplining enough.. how do you know when they’re just being two and trying to figure out life as well..

Is anyone else just as lost?! Trying to wake up each morning as a fresh start to a new day but then boom💥 same toddler tantrum again. Is this just how it goes? Do they eventually start to listen or do I need to get it together? Any tips appreciated. This is my first child and I am 👏🏻 mind 👏🏻 blown 🤯