Strugggglin

So I’m 12 dpo rn & since 9dpo I’ve been testing everyday and got nothing but negatives. My periods due in 3 days. Since 8 dpo I’ve been crampy in my lower back, have had slight tender breasts, and two days since I’ve had nausea ( today being one of the two). I’m hoping my period won’t come and I can test again. Is there any chance or do you all think I’m out for the month? This is my first time trying for a baby. My son came as kinda a surprise, so I never understood all you mommas’ struggles till now and it’s not fun lol. Appreciate all your guys responses 🥰