I asked my son about every bad thing he's ever done
My son was "the good kid". Never got in trouble. Super polite to everyone. But I as his mom knew there was something fake about my kid. I figured he did the most and was hiding behind innocence but I had no proof. He's almost 26 now and I asked him if he ever hid anything from me. He said yes. I asked what all he hid from me and he said "Mom. You don't wanna know". I said I did. So he took A deep breath and told me EVERYTHING! He started having sex when he was 14. He had his first "groupie" IN MY BED when he was 16. When we went out if state and he house sat he had a party. He experimented with sexual guys in our house. The list went on and on and on and now I'm traumatized. He looked super nervous and said "You still love me?..." I said of course and hugged him... But I knew my kid wasn't innocent... But damn...
Achieve your health goals from period to parenting.