i’m 17 and i’ve never came before. i understand there’s no rush to like explore especially since i’m a teen but i mean, i want to.

i haven’t had sex before when i want to know what i like beforehand. i’ve been fingered by myself and my ex and nothing, though at the time idk if he cared if i came. now this summer i got a vibe (lmao it’s a “facial massager”) and i’ve used it and it feels good but i haven’t came. do i just keep using it for longer??

idk i haven’t been able to and i’ve been trying off and on since i was 15. anything helps!!