Anyone else feel this way?

Question

I feel responsible for making sure my man eats. I have no idea why I’m like this and I’m thinking it’s because I’m a woman. Like even if I’m not cooking anything, I feel responsible for making sure he eats by picking him up fast food and bringing it to him. Is anyone else like this?

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I feel responsible for what my whole family eats. I am always thinking about meals and making sure everyone has what they need. But my husband is always thinking about safety and making sure I have gas and my car runs and I am happy. We both have our own "duties," including taking care of eachother.

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Nope. If my husband is hungry, he knows how to cook or get his own food. Most of the time we eat together, but I don’t worry about him feeding himself. He’s a grown man.

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My SO loves to cook, so he does a lot of it and I do the shopping and make sure food is available for processing. All my kids know how to cook too so if they need anything and I'm not available they can help themselves.

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I’m protective over my man I like to make sure he’s good as far as eating, sleeping, venting, etc.

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I'm like this. I totally understand

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Sort of but I work against those thoughts because I know they’re bullshit conditioning. If he’s hungry he can fix himself. I’m not his mother

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I still do this sometimes with my ex. 🤷🏼‍♀️ (We have kids together, so I’m trying to keep it positive.)

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Meh. All I can do is ask and offer. He’s ultimately responsible.

Anyone else feel this way?

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