Coworker takes everything personal and manipulates, what would you do??

Seeking real answers

I’m an accounting manager, I’ve been since I was 22. I work hard and I’m really good at what I do. Im 35 now and I was hired by a company 7 months ago to be their Sr accountant / accounting manager.

The coworker in question is 36 she’s a receptionist. From month 1 she has done nothing but complain about me to HR about meaningless petty things, ONLY me.

I asked her a few months ago (because we have limited parking inside the parking lot and sometimes we must park outside and then the street sweeper or parking enforcement comes and gives people tickets) I asked her hey since you have cameras surrounding the building would it be possible to let me know when you see parking enforcement out front?? She emailed back and ccd HR saying it’s not my responsibility to tell you, it’s not my duty I don’t have to tell you and said many other things. So I said wow this girl can’t be a simple compassionate human being. So I did all to avoid asking her for any help.

The parking situation is difficult right, so if I leave for lunch I lose my spot.

So I get food delivered.

In order to get my food delivered I tell DoorDash or Uber eat drivers “call me when you’re here, deliver strictly to me!!”

I did this to avoid asking her for help

I did this to avoid interaction with her

I did this because quote unquote it’s not her responsibility to notify me my foods here.

So now drivers tell her sorry I can’t leave it up front with you.

This girl told HR that I tell drivers that I can’t leave it SPECIFICALLY with her. I showed Hr my Uber eat notes proving she is wrong, I went as far as contacting Uber eats and saying “why are you telling the receptionist you can’t leave it with specifically her” and they texted back with I have no clue what you are talking about. I showed this to HR.

So she’s clearly lieing, OR misreading or reading too much into why I told the drivers basically don’t bother her, because in the past she ha said it’s not my responsibility to help you.

She emailed HR and made it seem as if I’m out to get her, when clearly I’m not.

I’m pregnant and all I want is my food. She doesn’t want to help me get my food, but then she also doesn’t want the drivers to contact me personally to notify me that my foods here?? So…. Wtf!

We have a meeting on Friday with her and HR.

What would YOU say? In that meeting. How would you react and do??