Anybody ?

Is there anybody that doesn’t see much sense in visiting your OB the second you see a positive test?

Even with mild cramping and light here and there spotting… there is pretty much nothing that OB can do even if you are having miscarriage.

I have a feeling that those early visits bring almost only worries… sac, pole, yes, no, blood, hcg, all the waiting…

and even if everything is perfect that doesn’t really mean a thing if you are 4w6d. ANYTHING can happen.

Of course that doesn’t apply on serious symptoms and problems that should be seen by a doctor at any time of pregnancy.

I know that’s a personal preference, but if I‘m about to miscarry at 7 weeks, I‘ll rather not see that sweet bean and a heartbeat.

I chose to wait till I‘m about 8-9 weeks and hope for the best.