Would you date a guy if he’s 25 and never had a girlfriend?

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I’m talking to a guy, not met yet and he asked me how long ago my last relationship was.
It’s embarrassing as I told him I’ve never had a boyfriend and only casual as Guys I’ve met have never want anything serious.
He usually texts me every day but yesterday he didn’t text me and now I’m worried I shouldn’t have told him

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Of course.
How do you expect him to lose the "never had a girlfriend" title if people won't give him a chance? Never having had a girlfriend literally means nothing.

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Yeah I don’t think it’s fair to not date someone as they may not have had a proper relationship in the past, we all have to start somewhere 
And if that was his reason for not replying then don’t waste your time

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Biggest reason I say yes to this is because I have 2 friends that are 25 and either are on their first relationship or still haven’t had one and they are amazing people. I would hate to hear someone turned them down just for that reason.  There’s honestly a lot of respect for someone that is comfortable being by themselves and spent time focusing on themselves and getting to know who they are.

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For me personally, no because I’m 42 and I’ve done a younger guy thing who didn’t have his life together and had to fix him for the next woman meanwhile he cheated on me and slept with half the town, so no, if he was a 40 year old virgin, now because I’d rather be with someone who knows what he’s doing and has experience, rather than being disappointed with somebody who has no clue about a relationship or hell the expectations of a relationship is supposed to be, unfortunately you don’t learn those things until you’ve had several failed relationships. Common sense is not common, it’s a freaking superpower, not everyone has it. And you wouldn’t have those experiences unless you’ve screwed up a few times. Like when you say does this outfit make me look fat, and he says yes, of course you’re not gonna like him too much after that or if he goes soft or does size matter or anything else that men would be insecure about, and you say yes yeah that kills his ego, but you would have a common sense not to say that if you didn’t have a previous experience. My current partner was an athlete in college and in high school, so obviously he was a popular with the ladies, he’s probably been with over 50 women in his lifetime, mind you he’s 58, but because he knows what he’s doing, is why things work for us, if he was 58, I didn’t know What he was doing, it wouldn’t work for us. If you lasted two minutes, it wouldn’t work for us, it’s because he can control his penis because he’s been with so many women, he’s learned that from experience.￼He’s learn to be the man that who he is today because of his experiences in life. Your experiences make you who you are. You learn from those experiences and hopefully don’t repeat that. Rather than being let down and disappointed because they don’t know what they’re doing on any level. Saying the wrong things, doing the wrong things, not being experienced in anything or have any emotional or mental responsibility and experiences. So it would be a hard no for me.

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I said no because when i was 24 i was talking to a guy who never had a gf and was a virgin. He was kind but i just couldn't do it. He was very socially awkward too. Making out was uncomfortable for me because he'd get super excited and it felt like he was a kid how excited he'd be. He wanted to have sex and the more i thought about it the more freaked out i got that id be his first. I know im not explaining it well, but i just couldn't.

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My husband is a a year and a half younger than me and had never been a serious relationship. He was 29 when we met.

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That depends. If he's been busy busting his ass to get a degree and working, and he didn't have time for a relationship then yeah I'd give him a chance. If he was fucking around and doing everything to avoid anything longterm with someone, I'd be very cautious. If he's socially awkward and he's wanted a relationship but hasn't been able to get in one then I'd probably stay clear.

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Yes! Considering you never had a bf either I wouldn't stress about it. Not everyone is in rush to be in a relationship. A relationship takes time and energy, maybe he doesn’t want to put the effort to maintain one. 
Instead of focusing on his past relationship statute focus on who he is as a person. His character as a person, how he treats you, etc.

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You’ve also never had a relationship!? My first kiss was with a guy I fell hard for. He had commitment issues which he was clear about. Neither of us had been in a relationship before. Don’t hold it against your guy unless you have reason to think he’s not ready for a gf. My first boyfriend now had a 2/3 year relationship and I’ll admit it helps. I’m learning how to have a romantic partnership. I’m so glad my boyfriend didn’t care that I was 21 and never had a bf. Point being just focus on dating someone thoughtful and kind- you’ll benefit from prioritizing that. Good luck :)

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My bf is older than that and I’m his only girlfriend.

Would you date a guy if he’s 25 and never had a girlfriend?

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