I work from home 8-5 everyday. He works evens for a couple hours he’s part time. He wakes up around 10:30 to help watch her while I work. And the whole time it’s misery. He is always complaining about something. He makes himself so stressed out about things that he is angry towards our toddler. About 3-4 months ago he hurt his back, and then he hurt his foot. If he’s not complaining about his foot, he’s complaining about his back if it’s not his back it’s his head, if it’s not his head it’s his stomach, if it’s not his stomach he’s stressed over a car. We have a toddler who cries a lot so he will wake up she will be all lovey and then 10 mins later she’s crying about sometbing( very normal behavior) and he will stomp in the back and say “ I wish I never fucking woke up, can’t wake up to this everyday). I work through all of this..so my day is already very stressful. But I don’t complain ever I don’t have room to complain or express any negative emotion because he has already filled the air with his negative attitude. And I try to be happy for my child sake since she has to see him be miserable everyday. I don’t know what to do, I’ve been with him for 10 years and when we talk about it he will be decent for 2-3 days max and then wake up and start bitching about his head hurting or whatever else he can come up with. He stays up super late always drinking tons of pop and eating garbage, falls asleep looking at his phone so of course his stomach hurts waking up and his head hurts. He will sit behind me mumbling under his breathe( I’m gonna fucking flip out, she’s out of control) it’s unbearable and I had an almost panic attack last night thinking about how I will be stuck in the house all winter with that. There’s no way someone can be this miserable. Last Christmas he made it miserable I cried my eyes out on Christmas <a href="https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=com.glow.android.eve">Eve</a> after working a half shift, trying so hard to make Christmas fun and full of joy and love for my child. He screamed that whole day and then I had to go to his family events puffier eyed. Theres no way every man is like this? I understand if he’s in pain but a lot of the times I have headache too, my hip hurts but I don’t say a damn thing and I don’t let anything ruin my day. I’ve been with him for 10 years. He bitches about how I’m not sexual with him. But it only takes 1 time for me to hear something negative come out of his mouth which is approximately 5 mins after he wakes up to be turned off for the remainder of the day. No not sexually attracted to him because of his anger. He won’t go to therapy..I’ve tried. He believes nothing is wrong with him and consistently comes up with reasons why he hates people and why it’s everyone else’s fault he so angry cause people are stupid. I tell him if he’s so miserable leave, go find what makes him happy. I would rather him be at work all day and me work from home watching our toddler and working cause it’s 85% less stressful.