I’ve been asking myself this for awhile. I’m super in love with someone and they want to have a baby too but we don’t necessarily have the means to provide for a baby. i have a job but i can’t barely take care of myself. i feel selfish for wanting a child knowing i don’t have the money but at the same time i am between 25-30 so i’m in the perfect years to have a baby before i might lose my chances. what should i do? i really do want a child but i fear i won’t be able to provide.