Depression

So I've been diagnosed with depression 5 years ago and my parthner really doesn't help, I get really bad anxiety from past relationship and he constantly gets stress you starts throwing things and I get in a right state, not only that but some days when I'm having a bad day, I don't wanna go out, I just can't face the world o just wanna curl up in bed al day and cry and he always always throws it in my face.. I know in a woman but he seriously needs to start doing things himself, he'll sit there and start getting really bitchy and moody if he's hungry? I have to say to him are you hungry and I get ' yes I fucking am been waiting for u to make me something m like sorry buddy! Are you incapable of doing anything!! Bare in mind this is al meals! Even snacks! On top of that obviously he just takes his clothes off as and wherever he is.. Doesn't wash up, babe make me coffee, make me a drink.. Wash all his clothes even run his bath like I've been doing this bullshit Turin 3 years now and it's just boring! I always say to him now like u incapable , I hate having to do every bring for you..  And nothing, he used to work up till last year so I didn't mind so much but now it's all me earning the money paying for everything and then when he has his outburst he smashes all my stuff up!! I'm not one to every throw anything in his face but I just feel like saying to him just go I can't afford to keep replacing warbrobes