Would you be uncomfortable if you found out that your spouse or boyfriend went to a strip club and got private lap dances from strippers?

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He’d be single because he knew at the beginning I don’t like the idea of my partner going to strip clubs.

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I would be upset and would never allow it! The way I see it, if he’s yearning to see other half naked woman get on top of him then chances are he’s basically saying he’s not satisfied with you enough as his woman that he needs to get his satisfaction else where.

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He would be my ex at that point. I told him if he ever decides to go to one just assume he's single from that point on cause in my relationship that's not okay.

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I would be very concerned because it violates our boundaries

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I think I’d be upset because it’s very out of character for him so I’d think something was really off. Though if it got to the point where he’d do that, I’d probably not be shocked as we’d have to be a really bad space for it to happen

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It's all well and good asking people what they think, BUT......
It all depends on your own boundaries within your relationship. 
As long as the relationship isn't controlling from either side, it's completely okay to have boundaries on what you allow and don't allow. 
In some people's relationship this is ok, and others it's not. Doesn't make any one of those people better than the other. 
In my relationship, it would not be ok for my husband to go to a strip club and its the same for me going as well. We both are aware that the other isn't comfortable with it and we both respect each other and would not do it. 
If others discuss with their partners that it's something they're ok with then thats ok too. I honestly don't get the "I wouldn't be pissed because I'm secure in my relationship". Ok but if it's something you expressed you're not ok with and ur partner does it regardless, then he doesn't respect you. 
Hope this helps

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Nope. Because I'm secure in my relationship 🤷🏻‍♀️

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My friends partner was going to take him to one for his stag do (his never been to one) I wasn’t happy I said you anit going to no strip club and his girlfriend heard me… Let’s just say that didn’t end well 😂. 
They all went go karting in the end. Lol

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Her be single... lol

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No I wouldn't care but next time he better take me with I want a lab dance to plus I trust my man

Would you be uncomfortable if you found out that your spouse or boyfriend went to a strip club and got private lap dances from strippers?

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