HELP ‼️ BF & video games
UGH! It’s not that I don’t want him to have an outlet and fun hobby, if it makes him happy that’s great. But here’s my issues:
He used to be super into games then he stopped for maybe a year. NOW he’s getting back into it and I swear ever since he started playing again we have started to have issues. The main one being because he is hypersensitive to everything and gets mad now super easily. Yes he works too but he always has worked. I can’t help but think that it has something to do with the games.
I’m top of that he wants to be with me less so he can play his games which makes me feel sad, but I try not to say anything because when I do he denies it’s from the games or that anything has changed.
Today I called him to rant about how my phone hasn’t been working. He was on his game ofc when I called and he got angry at me for “being negative” and taking out my frustration on him. I was not taking it out on him but just sharing my stress over my technical issues I’d been having for the past three hours. Now he hasn’t talked to me much and has been angry all night. We called again and I thought we were all fine and normal but he kept rolling his eyes at my and scoffing saying he was pissed off because “he didn’t deserve that” I told him i was confused at what I even did and asked him why he was taking it personal.
I told him my intent of why I was being “negative” was Bc I was frustrated not towards him but my phone. He then proceeded fo slam his fist on his desk. He usually is never this angry and agitated but the past month it’s been a mess.!
I feel so lost and fear that our relationship is starting to fail because of this cycle. I don’t know what to think.
What is everyone’s opinion? I could really use an outside perspective 😞😭😔😥😓😬🤥
Edit! He also is not wanting as much sex. Idek
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