Skinny shaming

So I have lost quite a bit of weight in the past  few months about 40 pounds in 6 months, due to medications and lifestyle changes etc. . I was always healthy and fit! 150 pounds and it was pure muscle. But now my friends/family seem to think its ok to comment on my weight all the time and joke about it like how it's weird my collar bone is showing or how my hip bone is "protruding" etc. and I'm not sure if they know how rude it is. Also I'm half black so my black friends make fun of me and say how I lost my butt wtc. (I'm 113 pounds and 5'6" )  my boyfriend seems to be the only one who doesn't comment or care about it. I eat constantly all the time and get hungry/angry when I don't eat. I just wish people would understand just because I'm thin doesn't mean I don't eat or am on a diet.  I eat icecream every night and also have a glass of red wine pretty much every night! If I don't call out overweight individuals than o should deserve the same respect! We should all stop looking at each other and start looking at ourselves. I just wanted to give awareness that it really doesn't matter if your curvy or thin or in between there is always that pressure to be perfect and there is no perfect. I've been on all sides of the spectrum and you just have to love yourself and not listen to others negative comments because they are battling something internal and they probably need a self esteem boost. Sorry about my rant but the moral of the story is: LOVE YOURSELF!!!