If your family had the chance to move abroad to your husband's home country that had free healthcare, free childcare, cheaper housing, and 1 year paid leave for both parents, would you do it, even if it meant breaking your mom's heart?

I have a toddler and am pregnant, and we both would love to move, but my (extended) family is devastated.

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I have a toddler and am pregnant, and we both would love to move, but my (extended) family is devastated.

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Sometimes you have to put your own family first (meaning your kids and husband).

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You’ve got to do what’s best for you and your family.
Tell them to come visit! Take long vacations with you guys!

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Your family is now your husband & your kids. They are your priority. You can always visit your mom🧡

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It's about you, your husband and your children... Not your mum.

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Yes. The family I created is the one that gets priority. I have to always do what is best for my children, even if it upsets other people. If the pandemic has taught me nothing, it’s taught me that.

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Yes. And I’d have my mother stay with us for the first month or two. Even if she had to take leave from her job, she’s do it if we paid for the flight and food.

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It would be really really hard, I’m very close to my family. And I would just make sure that we had enough room for people to stay

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You are an adult and have to do what’s best for your family meaning your kids and husband.

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Depends on the country. What country is it?

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Depends on what country your talking about. Also, those benefits would apply to you for this pregnancy? You wouldn’t have to become a citizen of this country first? I would def check on that because those benefits most likely apply to the citizens of that country.

If your family had the chance to move abroad to your husband's home country that had free healthcare, free childcare, cheaper housing, and 1 year paid leave for both parents, would you do it, even if it meant breaking your mom's heart?

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