sex life after birth

Hi girls,

Question: How you experienced sex life after birth?...me? not so much...

After the 8 weeks(10 in my case) of break after delivering...it was baaaaad😅 pain and it felt like i had foil inside me...and yes, i was using lube...lots of it!

Buuuut now, when our baby girl os 3 month's old...still not enjoying it: I don't get aroused like before or there is no pleasure during contact ... sometimes it hurts instead of getting wet and so on!

It's normal? Or my mind it's not there and that's why?