Trying for first baby!! I know I'm not alone!

 Those of us trying for our first baby...lets come together and help encourage each other in the process! It can be hard to see so many positive tests posted on here, but some of us still trying can come together and share our stories, questions and concerns! 
I'm on my second month trying. I have found it crazy how you take so many precautions to not get pregnant at first and then when you are ready to get pregnant it feels so hard!
Those of you successful in the journey of first pregnancy, can you share advice on what you learned in the process with those of us still trying?  How long did it take you? What is your advice on how often to try, prenatals, tracking fertility, Keeping anxiety down while waiting to test, etc!