Being forced to talk about abuse

So I’m on here doing something I’d never thought I’d be doing !

Years ago I was married to a not so good person who abused me in all ways you can possibly think.

I am now in a healthy and amazing marriage with my husband of now 5 years.

My parents who weren’t they for at the time of my abuse heard through the grapevine that I was being abused by my ex husband...

I tried to tell them with out all the details why I no longer have any communication with him and why he doesn’t have any with our children.

Well this Specific situation that they decided to bring up I did tell my mom about since I had to go to court to get a 50-B order of protection for me and my children and in that time I had to leave my apartment and go into a shelter with women who were going through the same thing .

I spoke to my mom about this and now she doesn’t remember and I am being forced by my stepdad and my mom to talk about this situation that I don’t even want to relive.

Now I was told shame on me for not saying anything and shame on me this is all my fault (stepdad)

Now my mom is on the phone with me saying talk about it to let it go !!!!

I’m angry and I just don’t want to talk about it !

Am I wrong ?