Relationship Advice

Hi, I need help understanding something- it might be a head scratcher for some but here we go…

So, I’ve been in a relationship with this guy for a year. It was great in the first 6 months however, he has a HUGE problem with me adding people on my social media (esp random guys). I don’t interact with anybody - I jus be in their for the memes or other people beeswax (IDC). When he sees something unfamiliar, he spazzes out and assumes I’m talking to these people while not talking to them.

It’s been a year, and he’s been messing with my money - he gets upset that there are guts working at my job and I HAVE TO INTERACT WITH THESE HUMANS. He’s come to my job and been belligerent about “who’s out here trying to bag my shorty, xyz, etc”. Dude thinks i got control over who’s where and who’s not.

When I’m not talking to him though out the day - I’m at WORK doing WORK SH*T. So if I don’t feel like talking to you, I’m not gonna talk to you, tf? I’m an ambivert- it’s how I function. Teddy see an unfamiliar name and begins to yell at me about this nonsense. My reaction to the situation is to not entertain his childish ass behavior - my “negative” go to is to be nonchalant and not let it disturb my peace bc I’m not gonna make you happy and not make myself feel good at the same time.

I freaking love this human but I can’t continue to allow him to act annoyingly possessive (idk how people tolerate that sh*t). Before I met him I loved myself and viewed myself not to let anybody disturb what makes me content. He gives me all I need to the point where he reminds me of my dad (in the most loving way )

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Right now, I feel like dropping him like a hot potato but I don’t because I care so much about this idiot.

I need suggestions and please be nicely blunt!

Thanks