Husband really doesn’t care?

I’m getting so fed up, I’m 32 weeks and he literally for weeks just comes home plays his game or plays on Facebook on his phone… i don’t get attention until it’s bed time and he wants sex… I get NO help with the house I have to bitch to get help with our 3 kids and the dog.. and every weekend he’s making plans with his buddies… if I say something I’m just a controlling bitch. Any advice on what to do???