Did you feel the same or different about your second(or any after that) child when pregnant than with your first? Like not as bonded?

I remember with my first I was over the moon in love before I even had him. He was planned and is 5 how. Some days I look at him and just think I’m going to explode with love.

With this baby, a surprise, I’m not feeling that love or bond like I did with him. Idk if it’s just cause I was prepared to be pregnant again, or if it’s because I am not sure how I am supposed to love someone else the same way I love my son or if maybe it’s because I know our lives are about to change drastically or what, but I’m not feeling it. I mean I love feeling her move and I talk to her and we are getting ready but the hind just isn’t there. Pretty sure I’m going to love her when she gets here but was wondering if anyone has ever felt the same way or is feeling that now?