Anal?

Question

I'm too worried to try anal. I don't know if I will like it or if it will hurt. anyone got any advice?

Answer

For me the first bit of him entering stings badly. But it's the good pain if you get me.. But once he's in and going slow it's ok.  Was actually pleasurable last time.
But we both, especially me SO says he prefers vaginal. 
It's just something you gotta try 😂
But it you sound like you don't want to.. And that's ok, is it your partner that wants to? X

Answer

The whole thing with anal is that you have to GO SLOW and be RELAXED as much as possible. It's going to be a new feeling and sensation that definitely takes some time to get used to, but can be extremely pleasurable! But you CANNOT rush into it! 
(I recommend you read this webcomic about sex positive stuff, this one is specifically about first time anal www.ohjoysextoy.com/buttsex/ )

I recommend first buying a small butt plug and using a quality lubricant to try and ease yourself into the whole idea of it. Make it a special night dedicated to yourself! Pamper yourself and treat yourself, take a long bubble bath, do your nails, wear that pair of favorite pj's, so you can really get in touch with yourself and are ready to try this new thing!

When the time comes, maybe play around a little bit with your clit or do something that is pleasurable and familiar to get you in the mood first of all. Then when you think you're ready to try out the plug, lubricate it generously and try to focus on the sensations you'll be feeling as you slowly and gradually let it in. The important thing is to NOT TENSE UP and to keep as relaxed as possible. Remember to go at your own pace and breathe. Once it's fully in, it's going to feel odd! Maybe a little uncomfortable because you're not used to the feeling, but just sit for a few minutes and it'll subside, so for the next few minutes get back to playing with yourself to make you comfortable again! This could also be done with a suitable vibrator or dildo as well.

I was very apprehensive about it at first too, but I love it now! It just takes some time and practice and you'll be good to go! I hope this helps and I didn't write too much to make this something you don't want to read. I'm here if you have any other questions! I've kind of been through it all. 😅

Answer

Me personally I just can't handle the pain. A friend says she likes it better then vaginal. If you can loosen it and get comfortable via lube & fingers etc. I've heard good things.

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