Age gap


I’m a teacher I’ve taken a break from teaching to be a stay at home mom because teaching and daycare would have only brought $100 home after all was said and done 😬

Here’s the thing. I have two. They’re 1.5 years apart.

My options are;

1. never have another.

2. Have one now. (Although I’m a little overwhelmed and don’t think that’s a great choice)

3. Wait 4 years and then have one.

Is 7 & 8.5 year gap too big? Would the last baby feel sad and alone?

I would love another but, I want to teach next year. And I don’t think my youngest would handle another baby very well at this stage

Urrggg idk