What would u do ??

Question

If you asked your partner “do you think you’d could be happier with someone else” and they answered “yes I think I could” or “is this the happiest you have been with someone” 
And they answered “no this isn’t the happiest” 
What would your next step be? Break up? See why that is and see if there’s something to change those answers without changing who you are as a person? 
I am watching a show right now about couples finding each other. And when they talk with each other they say how they’ve never been so happy in a relationship. Or they’ll be talking to their friends ab their partners and be like “if you think you can be happier then you need to leave ur relationship, take the risk, and try to find someone who does make you 
 happier “ 
My two thoughts on this. If they say they think they could be happier. Like I could see both sides. Okay, there’s sooo many ppl in the world. I’m sure ppl would be romantically great with many ppl in the world. Not just one. So really realistically thinking, yeah I’m sure there’s thousands of ppl who could make ppl happier. But that doesn’t mean they aren’t happy. 
But also, I don’t wanna be with someone who’s not the happiest they think they can be or like someone’s who’s not close to their perfect ideal person. 
I want to ask my bf this in person immediately. Unfortunately we are long distance. And the next time I see him, it’ll be us and his whole family going on a two week vacation. And if he’s being honest with me, there’s a real possibility I could get some crappy answers. Thus ruining the vacation 
What would you do????

Answer

I think if you’re asking this question to your boyfriend, you’re just looking for a loophole for a break up and be the reason for it, I think it’s a double edge sword, it’s like one of those you’re damned if you do you’re damned if you don’t questions, I know you’re looking for him to say that he’s the happiest person ever, but obviously everyone has good days and bad days, and I think it’s one of those type of things where they tell you what you wanna hear, or they are honest and you’re heartbroken it’s one of the two it’s like when someone says do I look fat in this outfit, they tell you yes of course you’re gonna be upset. Do you want them to tell you no you don’t, obviously but at the same token may be a suggestion of a different outfit, or if I tell you look fat it’s gonna be another hour of you picking another outfit, so I think it’s just a bad question and you’re sabotaging the relationship by asking it. And you’re basically setting him up for failure, basically if it’s a question that’s going to give you an answer that you don’t want to hear, I wouldn’t ask it all together because if he’s not thinking Jesus a question that’s going to get me screwed, and says the wrong thing, then obviously you’re going to hear an answer you don’t want to hear and you’re gonna want out of the relationship so basically you’re willing to sabotage the relationship by asking this question. Instead of just being happy where you are and content with what you have you’d rather ask a question that could possibly jeopardize your relationship. I don’t think it’s worth asking honestly. You’re just looking for a reason to have a fight in an argument. So I wouldn’t ask it at all.￼￼￼

Answer

I think if I was asking those questions to my partner, then there would already be an issue there. 
I do believe that there are many people in the world that each person could be compatible with, so sure, there could be someone else out there who could make my husband happy if things were different & we had never met. But I would never feel the need to ask him if he would be happier with someone other than me because we’ve both made the decision to be together- in our relationship, I have nothing to question. We’ve discussed past relationships & we both feel that ours is unique, special, one-of-a-kind. If he wasn’t fulfilled & still searching for something I could never give him, then I would be questioning things. And in that situation, I would definitely want to end the relationship. I would not want to be with someone who isn’t sure they are exactly where they want to be (when I am).
I think that when you know, you know, and if you don’t, you either have some work to do on yourself, or it just might not be a good fit. Sometimes people might just need to adjust to make a relationship work, but sometimes it’s best to let go so that you both have the chance to find someone that makes you feel fulfilled. 🖤

What would u do ??

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