Do you ever feel like as a woman you have responsibility maintaining yourself

Do you ever feel overwhelmed. I want to wake up and be gorgeous, but actually it takes time and efforts.

From brushing hair, brushing teeth, to makeup or styling hair, to clothes to having presentable hands & feet meaning a manicure pedicure, removing any unsightly hair and looking nice but being modest and not casual.

It's difficult honestly Its like I feel like God loves us as we are he put hair there for a reason. I feel like we should be taking care of our bodies better that is true.

I feel like as women we should set aside time to pray, drink more water, read the bible, help.

What do you ladies do for self care and what motivates you to have self care?