I cannot stand the fact that my husband is overly sensitive about damn near everything I say it feels like. We started a company and we are on track to make at least 500k this year on it which is exhilarating. But he's spending the money before it's even in our hands. We will be getting paid in November/December(potentially huge) on the investment we made with another company. He said he wanted to buy his mom a car, no biggie right? Then he said he wants to spend minimum of 30 thousand dollars on this woman's vehicle and give her an unlimited gas card. Like wtf. I'm game with a gas card with $ on it and paying for a car but cmon unlimited AND a minimum of 30k on this woman's car when she's in her 60s?! And this woman abused him when he was growing up. But somehow my mom is unworthy of a vehicle since she has done meth and has been going through rehab. I told him I don't want to spend 30k on ANYBODYs car. It's bad enough we already pay some of his moms bills, her car insurance which is almost 3k a year, AND we give her $. He was calling me selfish saying we are about to make all this money(jis mom makes 2600 on SS ans her man makes 1k on ss and they livein an insanely cheap area) But here's the thing. We want to open another facility at least I do insanely bad so we can be financially free, and he says we won't have the money for it and it costs x amount which we won't have. But yet wants to buy a house in Florida, his mom a brand new car, a boat, another car for us, etc. I'm sitting here like come tf on dude stop blowing our money. Running credit cards up to max. Not to mention we just purchased a 610k house and pay $3500 a month on mortgage and we are struggling to pay that atm due to $ tied up in investments. Don't get me wrong it'll pay off hopefully. But Im pissed he's blowing money like that. AND he wants to pay off our current house by may and we JUST got it . His high to strive for goals are stressing me tf out and he went off on me for saying I don't want to buy his mom a super super nice car. Apparently me not wanting to spend 30k on a car that will last 6 years before it starts to need replacements makes me selfish and inconsiderate.

Flash forward to this morning I said it was a little cold (in MI) and I said I didn't want the weather to change. He said "well I don't I like this weather start being more positive seasons change deal with it" and simply all i said was "thats great but I don't want to be cold yet WE haven't done anything fun this summer and it's flashing by" My God that made him trip. He's like "you just went to your dad's house you're aboutbto go to cedar point blah blah blah" and it's like. Yeah ok but I had to beg you to be fine with me taking my brothers to CP. And I went to my dad's because I was working an event away from home. I said WE haven't done anything fun. He's making me feel like I'm wrong to feel that I don't want the seasons to change. I really just don't like being cold. And I want to move out if state which I've been talking to him about for years. He's 12 years older than me. We do outstanding together, we've been together for 7 years. HES lived out of state for a few years of his life. I'm ready for something new but instead have to work my fucking life away. For what, to make all this money and blow it before its even here? I believe in spoiling fam and friends with riches, but come tf on 30k for someone else's car when we don't have money like that. After the argument about the SEASONS CHANGING he fed into me about the car thing and said all i do is complain. Ok mf but all you do is BLOW $! I'm sick of it! Idc if in the future we might have money, we don't have much right now and he's trying to pay what little we ro have on a car for Christmas but here I am and we still haven't taken our honeymoon. Love having my feelings contradicted and makes me feel like I'm wrong nomatter what. Idk why I always have to be considered nagging,bitching, or complaining. Me saying I don't want to spend that kind of money on a car or saying I don't want the season to change simply for not liking the weather is absurd. I woke up in a good mood now im ready for the entire week to just end. I'm sick of him wasting $ on off the lot cars and all this shit! Especially since just taking them off the lot lowers their value by 10k right off the bat! But do i have a say? Cause apparently it was only his ideas and investments that got us here, completely ridiculous cause guess fucking what mf we started this all TOGETHER! sick of it.