Birth control

This is my second baby. After he is here I dont want to be on the pill for ever. I hatw the way they make me feel ): and im not about to get an iud. I know eveyone is diffrent but all the people I know that have had them had to have them removed... im gonna call my insurance tommorow and ask if they will cover a tubal. Has anyone as young as me (23) had there tubes ties and regreted it? Im sure I dont want anymore children. But afriad I will change my mind. What about a vasectomy? I hear tons of pregnancies happen after there husbands had them.. any suggestions?