Fertility week in close proximity

Bethany • 31 years of age, very opinionated but thoughtful
Good evening, 
Been talking with my SO, while we are not living together currently so each one of us can take care of the minor things troubling us, we are still working on growing our family. Before many of you assume that we have problems warranting our relationship to be divided it's not quite like that. We're each consulting specialists for our care and we have different avenues that we are accessing in order to prepare to be a healthy family unit. 
Simply implying he is seeing specialists through the VA, I am seeing my medical team in the community. I know, why if I am seeing a community doctor can I not transfer to a community Doctor that lives closer to his needs. It's not that I can't but I don't want to risk losing progress made. For him, he needs a medical team that can relate to him and his medical care. He doesn't want to risk his progress either. 
Right now the plan is to keep some aspects of our existence separate however we are only trying to be parents together when and if we conceive we will reevaluate our medical needs and the needs of our bundle and make decisions from there. 
With that said we are focusing our attempts to include more days of dedicated bd.