Haven't told my friends yet 😖

I'm actually 20 weeks pregnant on Wednesday with my second baby. I planned on keeping it quiet till my first official scan at 12 weeks.

In this time my friends family member was severely ill and I just felt so bad sharing great news when this awful situation was happening.

Now her family member has passed away so I feel like it's gone way to far now and it's hella awkward to say!!

I don't know how to approach her on this 😔 people may say oh if she's your best mate she would be happy blah blah. The thing is she's struggling soo much right now and I feel so bloody awkward and bad for not saying anything!!

What should I do?