Rude in laws?

My husbands mother has been causing issues forever in the family. And she did something pretty much unforgivable when she came to California to visit my husband. I’ve never been so mad at someone that I kicked them out that same day. On top of that. I’m 15 weeks pregnant and she constantly tells me that I’m getting big and I’ve put on weight. She’s told me I have to name my son if it’s a boy after her husband my father in law. She was mad that I said we wouldn’t allow her to stay with us after what she did the last time. My sister in law called me a bitch because she decided to go to my husband to talk shit because I told her I didn’t need her here to take care of the baby when it’s born I needed help around the house. My in laws being so so much drama.

Edit: my husband and I are pretty young so it’s pretty much just been him and family for a while. We had a long talk about how his family acts and when to set boundaries. He’s working on it because he’s never thought to put boundaries down because of how his family is. The whole family is super toxic so it’s normal to him. But we have discussed this especially with the baby on the way