Me and my fiancé have always planned that we would get married before we had a kid if we weren't married yet, so we would all have the same last name on the birth certificate. Now he's saying that we'll wait until after the baby is born. Am I just a hormonal mess or do I have a right to be upset. My parents were never married and had different names on the birth certificate and I don't want to be like them. I'm so hurt.