My boyfriend and I can't agree on us getting married and having kids I want them now and he wants to get married at 22 and have kids at 25 we are 17 and we are ready for the steps he just does want to what should I do?

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I think your boyfriend is very smart for wanting to wait.

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I would respect your boyfriends wishes. 17 is young to be married and having children.

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Why would you want kids at 17? I would much rather have them at 20 something, be with my partner and enjoy life, go out, have fun etc.

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You should respect what your boyfriends saying cause if he's not ready for it then you should push him. It will only make him resent you

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Respect his wishes. Just because you are ready, doesn't mean he is. You can't force someone to marry you and have kids with you.

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Wait. I was like you but I was 16 and my boyfriend was 17 at the time, I begged him to marry me and start ttc he said no over and over. After months I finally gave the ideas up, almost 4 years later I'm SO glad he never agreed with me to any of this. We both finished high school and college, he's a welder and I'm a cosmetologist, we both have really good jobs, he has a 2010 lifted really nice Chevy, I'm so close to getting my truck as well, and we're now planing on getting married either before new years or after and start building our home. ☺

My boyfriend and I can't agree on us getting married and having kids I want them now and he wants to get married at 22 and have kids at 25 we are 17 and we are ready for the steps he just does want to what should I do?

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