Disrespectful??

So me and my SO where listening to late night jams and people call in and say some crap during the commercials and some girl i know called and they say theyre names and i was like omg i know her (i dont like her btw) and i was like she hangs out with all those one girls and hes like why do you get all excited and started lookong at me weird and i told him why hes judging me and hes like i know you just wanna be like them you always follow them ur a follower you wanna be popular and idk what like I'm not even in school anymore these girls still are and i had friends went to parties thats what he sees as popular i guess which i already been through like wtf and we just stopped talking. Would you be offended ? How would you feel if he basically called you fake and a follower ??