Asexual?

Question

Hi,
I’m a 20 year old female and have a long term boyfriend. Yes I’m attracted to my boyfriend but I’m really not bothered about sex. The only reason I want to have sex us to be able to conceive, other then that I really wouldn’t be bothered if I never had sex again. 
Is this asexual?

Answer

Yes this could be. There's a difference between attraction and serial attraction.
I am asexual. I am attracted to my partner. There are many trait about him that I am attracted to. I don't want to have sex with him. I do but I view at a chore more then an experience. I don't mind doing it because I love him but I don't mind not doing it either.

Answer

No because being asexual is the lack of sexual *attraction* not action, the fact that you actually feel sexual attraction to your bf even if you don’t care much about sex doesn’t make you asexual :)

Answer

I suggest doing an internet search on asexuality. There is a great website called AVEN. See if any of the terms relate to you. Some asexuals have sex and enjoy it, some are repulsed by it all together and some are indifferent to the experience and prefer to do what you are doing and use it as a tool to conceive. If you feel you may be asexual than that is up to you to decide if this label suits you. :)

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