I'm 8 weeks postpartum with me and my boyfriends first. My boyfriend has a son from a previous relationship who lives with us, but he's 19 and works the night shift at a hospital as a medication aid and asleeps during the day so we hardly ever see him. Our baby has colic so bad and I'm losing sleep and my hair. To add to that my boyfriend started wetting the bed again. He did in the past. It was trauma related and he wet the bed until he was 21. So he hasn't wet in 2 years, but he's been wetting the bed since a week after our daughter was born he started again, so the little sleep I'm able to get, I wake up in a puddle of piss. Then I wake my boyfriend up and he strips the bed and the noise wakes the baby up and here we are again! He said him ad his therapist have been talking about it but this has been going on over a month and I just want to scream! I have though at times to ask his son to watch the baby so I can nap but his son works 10pm-8:30am and goes to class 4pm-8pm and he's just horrible in the morning when you wake him. That's why when my boyfriend asks him for rent he makes sure to ask him at night when he's getting ready to for work to avoid a fight and the last thing I need postpartum is to be yelled at. I'm just over everything.

Edit: I thought about asking him to wear an adult diaper but he is so sensitive and I don't want to hurt his feelings or make him think I think less of him.... Especially since I feel like I've already been saying things much ruder than usual