Second time moms - so tired

Juniper

Any other moms out there barely able to take care of their first kid? My pregnancies hit me hard, I get every symptom under the sun and I’m very, very tired, short of breath, and have back pain. I can’t keep up with my toddler, and my husband helps a ton and it still feels so hard. I hate that I feel like I literally cannot physically handle my son. Anyone else feel this way? I legit feel disabled.