Father advise

Hello i’m a new father to a 3 week old baby girl and I need advise. I’m trying to get her stop crying but every time I try to help her or care for her she she’s me that she doesn’t like me. Let me explain. With my wife’s parents or my father figure when ever she cries they try to calm her down and she does she even smiles with them, but as soon as I try to calm and love her she has a tantrum and i’m freaking out because my baby girl doesn’t love me. I feel terrible and I feel like i’m not doing anything right as a father even though I’ve been trying… I spent over $5,000 on my first born(her) and I’ve tried to show her that I love her suck as picking her up and burping her or stocking her back and forth gently. Tummy time anything…. I even give her kisses I change her diapers when she’s freaking out because of the poop and I feel like she doesn’t like me…. Please if there’s any father out there on this app please help i’m breaking down slowly and I think I need help…