Does the fear ever go away?

Question

I am 5w6d (I think) and I feel like my numbers are so low compared to everyone I see post. After two second trimester losses, I never feel ok til like 27 weeks. 😭 I know my numbers are doubling but I see some of y’all like tripling! Grow little babe.

Answer

My doctor has told me not to worry until he tells me to worry. Doesn’t help. I have had 2 loses and found I had something wrong with my uterus causing them. I had that corrected and thought I would feel safe with the next pregnancy. I didn’t even though it went full term. I’m back to being nervous. I wish I could say it goes away, but it doesn’t always. What helps me is to just think right now everything is okay and this baby deserves for me to be excited about them. If something happens then I don’t want to regret not celebrating their life while I had them.

Answer

My numbers didn’t even double in my last pregnancy and I went on to carry a healthy baby. But I get the anxiety (I’ve had 2 early miscarriages). Started spotting with this pregnancy and all my anxieties are back again. Just try to take it day by day

Does the fear ever go away?

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