Hey guys, so I wanted some input...I am 29 I am 12 weeks pregnant and although I am completely happy about it, it happened very unexpectedly with a guy that I had only known a couple months. I was with my boyfriend for three years prior to meeting this guy l, my boyfriend and I broke up in June and I thought to help me get over the break up (I was devastated) I would start to date again so in August that's what I did.. Needless to say we ended up getting pregnant and the guy I am with is a complete gentleman and actually pretty awesome the problem I'm still in love with my ex, whom also has three kids of his own that I adore. (this is my first child). I reached out to my ex even though I didn't thoroughly think it through and we ended up talking I obviously told him I was pregnant and although he was upset he wants to be with me, I am honest and told I guess what you would call my boyfriend about my ex and how I felt and he still wants to work things out bc he wants a family.. I feel so torn bc I'm still in love with my ex and I feel guilty taking away the baby expierence from the father of my child who is really a nice guy... Should I just stick it out with the father of my child even though I know thats not who I want to be with? Just looking for some advice!