Plus Size Anxiety - TTC

Are you plus size and have seen a fertility specialist? What was your experience? How did you redirect the conversation and/or advocate for yourself during your appointments when they only want to focus on your weight?

I have my first appointment at the fertility clinic and I have a bunch of anxiety that they are going to blame everything on my weight and not listen to my concerns or investigate other health issues.

I am a plus size woman with suspected PCOS. I have been steadily gaining weight over the last three years and I am around 245lbs and 5 foot 9 inches. I carry my weight fairly distributed throughout and would describe my figure as curvy.

Also for reference, I walk about 5km a day and do weight lifting. I keep a close eye on my diet and do not often eat processed foods or foods high on the glycemic index. Losing weight is extremely difficult, but I understand that loosing weight will only benefit me and any future pregnancies (aka I understand that I need to drop some lbs but do not want that to be the focus)