So, my fiance has two girls from a precious marriage. He's got full legal and physical custody of them both, mainly because their mother willingly gave them up. In July, she move 3000 miles away. She calls once a week and the oldest will talk to her, but the youngest refuses to. But, she goes on to compare me to her mother and say things like "my mommy said you're not the boss of me." However, I spend most of my time taking care of them (I'm in nursing school from 8-12 Monday- Wednesday and in Conicals 6-6 Thursday and Fridays, and their dad works 8-5 give days a week)... I'm not sure whether this is going to pass or what to expect. It hurts my feelings that she doesn't understand that I'm here raising her and her mom is a crack ho that doesn't care about her and her sister. I know that she's young, but I want her to understand.....