Would you stay with your SO if theres been nothing but heartbreak since the beginning?

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My SO has lied to me, ignored my feelings, hurt me repetitively, said he loved another girl, and the honeymoon period is non-existent. We've been talking for 5+ months but have only been together officially for a month. I feel like i should give up and move on but he says he needs me & when he thinks about losing me, he wants to die (he's ill). I'm worried about him and I DO want things to work..but i dont think i can take much more pain.

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That whole "I need you I'll die without you" thing is a huge red flag for me. It's a sign that they're manipulating you into feeling guilty and staying. My ex used to do that and he became increasingly aggressive and abusive over the years. It hasn't been very long. I suggest running for the hills. Seriously.

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He sounds immature & like he isnt ready for a relationship.

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If its not working its not working. Its better to get out early than when youve been together for a few years and end up livig together and bring kids into it.

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If this is how you're treated after a month of dating , how do you think he'll act after he's really comfortable with you. Get the hell out of there and don't let him emotionally manipulate you into staying.

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1. He's a liar
2. He's inconsiderate
3.  He's hurtful
4.  He says he loves another
5.  He's manipulative

Why is it even a question of whether or not to stay?

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I was with my ex for 4 years. The first 3 were great but the last year became very unhealthy. I tried to break up with him many times but he wouldn't let me do it. Finally I did end things and for a while it only made it worse. He went off the deep end and started stalking me and calling me over and over again at all hours threatening to hurt himself if I wouldn't talk to him. I tried reaching out to his friends and family for help and sometimes they could calm him down but usually they just acted like I was blowing things out of proportion. Blocking him only did so much good. It was really out of controll but I still really cared about him. One morning 3 months after the break up he got his hands on a mutual friends phone and called me at 6 am, I answered and he said some rather hurtful things to me so I told him to leave me the F*** alone and I hung up. I found out that he had tried to commit suicide tht day because of what I had said. Fortunately he was not successful but it still destroyed me. I felt so guilty, I was bairly functioning for weeks. However, some good came of it. His family and friends finally took notice of what was going on and forced him to get help. They kept him away from me and he is doing really well for himself now. Breaking up is tough, and it is even worse if the person you are breaking up with is not in a mentally stable place. But on the end it was better for both of us that I ended it, and it will be better for you and your SO if you end things too. It will not be easy, but dragging things out does not help.

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I learned the hard way, mine was an drug doing alcoholic you need to get away from anyone who will treat you badly. Next thing you know they will be making threats to hurt or kill you. Just get out if there

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Even if u still love him or not. Its best to leave u deserve  better. U know that been inside. 😊💚💛💜

Would you stay with your SO if theres been nothing but heartbreak since the beginning?

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